"Let's go see if there are any more crawdads," said Peggy, my older sister.
"Nah, I wanna go riding down the hill," I said.
"Well," she said, "Let's go by the creek first, and then, if Mick and Doug want to, we'll go up the hill with the wagon."
"So, then we can coast back down?!" I asked, eagerly.
"OK," she responded.
I agreed with this, and off to the creek we went. Well, it wasn't really a creek. More like a brook; just a tiny rivulet that ran along one side of the property where the little cabin was located.
We called the place Rocky Ridge, and that most likely had to do with the fact that the little cabin where we lived was pushed back against the ridge that ran at the back of the property. My memory is that the property was entered from the north or northwest corner, and there was an east/west road in that direction. The small creek ran from northwest, to southwest, along one edge of the property, and there were trees between the western edge and whatever was out that way.
The rest of the northern edge, all of the eastern edge, and the southern were trees, growing along a ridge that climbed upward from the level of the cabin.
We lived in this cabin for part of one year, moving there after our home had burned to the ground sometime in mid-1951.
Mom was pregnant that summer, and Mick took his position as oldest very seriously. This slim, dark haired ten year old did indeed carry a lot of responsibility for his age, and those of us younger than he did not exactly go out of our way to make things any easier for him.
He was pretty much in charge of us most days, and usually it was all four of us that played together, under his supervision. We went to the creek, and we waded in its crystal clear, shallow water. We counted crawdads, picked them up, moved them around, and if we got thirsty, never thought twice about drinking from our cupped hands.
Then, just about the best thing to do, we went for the wagon, and began to pull it up the hill, on the old road that ran along the top of the ridge, behind the cabin. Most folks should be aware of the famous Radio Flyer Red Wagons of the 50's. It might, therefore, interest you to know that the Radio Flyers were not the best wagons around. They were not the best made, in terms of quality, nor were they as practical as they could have been. And, more important, they were not as fast as they could have been for coasting down a hill. We had a red wagon that was either a Mercury or a Murray brand and it beat the pants off any old boxy Radio Flyer you ever saw.
The four of us pretty much shared our streamlined wagon. Mick, the oldest, was about 10 years old, then Peggyy was about 8, Doug must have been 6 and a half, and I was 5. The wagon that we had was, in my recollection, a red metallic color, but that was a long time ago, and I can't find any other image than just plain red. It looked like the image below.
We used it for play, but it was also a work horse, and it carried wood
for the stove, dirt, and whatever we needed to move from one place to
On the day in question, however, our purpose was play. The idea was to pull it up to the top of the hill, around the long curve, up above the cabin. There was an old road up there, with pretty good pavement, and it was great fun to pile into the wagon, and get a push off from one of my older siblings, and then go like a bat out of hell, until we ran out of hill, or road, way down, around the curve, at the bottom.
As we made our way up the hill, we passed a neighbor's property, where we tread with care, because they had a dog that always went nuts at sight of us. For some reason, this particular day, it got loose, and attacked poor Dougie. Who knows why he got singled out; maybe it was because his level of fear was greater than the rest of us. Maybe it was because everything always seemed to happen to Doug. I don't know.
My recollection is not the best, but I remember a flurry of activity. Dog and kids, in a scramble, raising a lot of dust. I remember a cacophony of noise, with the growling of the dog, the screams and yelling of Dougie and the rest of us. Fortunately, the lady who owned the dog heard us and came to pull him off poor Doug.
The dog had bitten through his cheek, up on the right side, just below his eye. There were two long gashes, and I could see the white line of his skin contrasted with the red flesh underneath. There was, of course, a lot of blood. There was another puncture clear through his lower lip, and various other cuts and scrapes and bruises.
I don't know how we got him back home, because I just do not remember. He was taken to the hospital, where he spent at least one night, after they stitched him up. He carried the scars the rest of his life. His upper right cheek, especially as a child, looked like a double railroad track. The physical scars faded over the years, but I know that the psychological scars never did heal. And, now, he's gone too, faded away just like those scars.
Thursday, January 21, 2016
Is it all part of the dumbing of America, is it just because I'm an old man, or is it something else? It seems that lately, I am finding it increasingly difficult to discuss certain issues on a public forum with way too many young people.
Recently, I got into it with a young person (I'm guessing she is very young, compared to me) on a Facebook thread that started with someone's meme about how Andrew Jackson supposedly made a killing in real estate, and how he took advantage of many people, and had a lot to do with forcing the Cherokee from their homelands.
My initial comments pointed out that he was likely not the only one doing that sort of thing, but also tried to show how my generation was taught history based on what we knew about various historical happenings at that time (the 50's & the 60's). Specifically, I mentioned Columbus Day and how his place in history is now refuted. My statements had to do with the fact that we were not (in my opinion) taught necessarily to revere Columbus, but that the day itself (always observed on October 12th, by the way) served to remind us of the date when the New World was supposedly discovered.
This person got all hung up on a statement that Columbus did not discover anything because there were indigenous people already living here. And, then she went off on a rant about how Columbus murdered and enslaved many people and spread disease, which killed many more. And, then, of course she did bring it back to Jackson and how he was a slaver.
I tried to rein her in by pointing out that she had not even read what I posted, and that this is the sort of thing that causes so many social media disagreements. She was so intent on her point, that she ignored what I had to say.
I guess my point here is that I always thought that old people were accused of being stubborn, and of clinging to outmoded ideas or beliefs, and therefore impossible to talk to or to understand, and that may even be at least partially true. But, how about maybe young people are not taught any appreciation for history, or respect for their elders, who have really been there, and done all that? Why is it so hard for a young person to understand that we older folks were indeed taught differently? I can accept that Columbus may well have been responsible for all kinds of evil, and that Andrew Jackson was a slaver and may have benefitted financially from misdeeds and shenanigans.
But, I can also accept the historical reality that both of these people were considered to be of historical significance, and that both of these people were indeed of historical significance - even to those who now revile them.
I can also point out that certain days on the calendar from my youth were marked or even celebrated based on the information that we (and, generations before us) had available to us at the time. So, just because we no longer celebrate Columbus Day in the manner that we once did, does not mean that we were necessarily wrong! Likewise, I would submit that changing Memorial Day to a Monday holiday and changing Abraham Lincoln's birthday and George Washington's birthday from Feb. 12 and Feb. 22, to some arbitrary Monday holiday has changed these formally important days to something insignificant, and rather meaningless.
I think the tragedy is that young people cannot understand the significance of certain special days. I remember my mother telling us about May Day (May 1) and Arbor Day (now the last Friday in April, but traditionally a spring day for planting trees), and especially Memorial Day. You see, Memorial Day was always on May 30, and it also happened to coincide with my mother's birthday. But, she taught us that it had begun as a way to remember war dead, and the only reason we did not maintain a great degree of solemnity on that day was because it was her birthday. I remember we went out and picked wild flowers for her on May Day, because it was a day that had to do with the rites of spring, and we learned about the May Pole, and it was not until later in my life that I learned some of the special significance of this day, in relation to the Middle Ages.
My point is that we need to be able to see and acknowledge that times change, but in the long run, nothing really changes. And, yes, it does bother me very much that young people apparently have no respect for their elders.